Lets make pro and contra lists to make the decision easier

NE:
Pro - We all got chars there
- We will lose some people if we leave it
- It has alot of people, which means alot of pvp and raids
Contra - There are alot of lags and dcs (with rollbacks)
- There are donor Items what make people OP
- Theres no balance between the classes like Pallys are OP
- For some there might be too many people
- The server owner is a fucktard xD
- There are alot of stupid bugs
Torn:
Pro - We have chars there
- Some people have donated there
- Its not very hard to level if you dont have a char there yet
- There are no OP items
- There are not as much bugs, lags and dcs as on NE
Contra - There might be a bit too less people (personally i thinks there are enough)
- We had problems with GMs there or something (not sure)
- We gonna lose people who want to stay on NE
Mmorpg4all:
Pro - Its allmost free of lags and dcs
- It has scripted instances
- There are allmost no bugs
- Theres a good balance between the classes (no OP classes)
- There is nice pvp and raiding
- There are alot of people, but not too much
Contra - We gotta remake our chars
- We gonna lose some people if we go there
- We will have to get new people into the Guild there to do good raids and pvp
(I have just heared of mmorpg4all from some people. Havet tried it yet. I might do so soon)
I hope this helped. If you got another point copy and paste the lists and add it.